Life Stories: The Story of Love and Wrestling | San Francisco Bay Area Family Photographer

I have a boy.  And today is his birthday.  And he just keeps getting older, while I miraculously keep getting younger.  (C’mon…humor me.)

And as this little boy grows up, I fear that the snuggling time will decrease.

And that just can’t happen.

So, in my attempt to keep the snuggling time alive and well in my household, I have figured out a covert operation that allows me my snuggle time without the boy even knowing it’s happening.  Wanna know my secret?

We wrestle.

It’s like WWF all up in here.  Sort of.  In between throw downs, atomic knee drops, and death blows,  we laugh and smile and say “I love you.”  I love it.  Some day he might key into the fact that this is my tricky way to smother him with love, but for now, he thinks we are having a knock down, full out, BATTLE.

To shoot these as self portraits, I knew I would have to channel my inner MacGyver.  I used two backdrop stands, a tic tac toe type design with some curtain rods I had lying around, and random things around my house to hold my camera directly overhead.  And yes, this did include duct tape and string.  I then fired the shutter with my remote, which you will notice is in my hand in many of the shots.  I’m pretty happy with these pictures.  I now have pictures of my kids and me doing something that ALWAYS fills my heart.

And the fact that these are self portraits just tickles me pink.  :)

And so without further ado, I present to you The Story of Love and Wrestling.

The wrestling match always begins with someone standing on the bed, assuming the Battle Pose.

But no one stays on their feet long.

Battling now commences.

As you can tell, I am very, VERY fierce.

You can clearly see that this battling business is not fun at all.  Battling is hard work.  And it’s dangerous.  But someone has to do it.

I really take a punishing.

He’s ruthless.  You can clearly see that I can hardly stand it.

As the battling winds down, it becomes a little bit more obvious what all this battling is really about.  Hugs.

But someone else wants in on this game.  My girl.  My mini me.

And she brought her cats.

It started out innocent enough.

But soon….

But it always ends in happy sighs and snuggles.  I seriously just love it.

If you are now just tuning in to my blog and are wondering what this Life Story is all about, let me tell you.

Cuz it’s awesome.

And very very fun.

I teamed up with a group of amazing photographers and each month we are taking the time to document our own lives.   This is a challenge for us to capture our every day worlds and hopefully make us and everyone aware that our “ordinary” is actually “extraordinary.”  We’re calling the series “The Story of ________” and we’ll each be filling in our own blanks. At the end of this post is a link to another photographer who participated, and she’ll be linking to someone else. It’s a whole big circle of stories in pictures. Click through and enjoy!

To follow this story, click right HERE.

If you’ve missed my other Life Stories, don’t despair!  Here they are: Pumpkin Patch,  Best Friends, and Christmas Tree.

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25 Comments:

  1. Kristin
    January 27, 2012
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    These are so wonderful Laura! I love your little secret way of getting extra hugs and snuggles. Cool shots. I love that last one!

  2. Beth
    January 27, 2012
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    Love love love love

  3. Liz
    January 27, 2012
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    Beautiful, Laura. Keep snuggling those babies of yours. They never get too old for that! Happy birthday to your sweet boy.

  4. Amy
    January 27, 2012
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    You. Rock.

    No only is the images so much fun, what an AMAZING keepsake you have as they get older- OMG- just…. love love love love love…..

    You are a great mom :)

  5. Amy
    January 27, 2012
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    ignore my bad grammar.. IS fun? Seriously I obviously need to go back to bed :)

  6. Sara
    January 27, 2012
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    These are so freaking awesome! I love love love your work!

  7. sally
    January 27, 2012
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    ok, so I kept looking through these and saying, Oh! That’s my favorite! No, wait, THAT’S my favorite! No, it’s that one…Oh I give up. I love them all. But your hair in that one is hilarious.

  8. Taryn Chrapkowski
    January 27, 2012
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    Every month I anxiously await your life story posts – this month was well worth the wait – what a wonderful memory to document, and now I have some ideas to get hugs – um I mean wrestling- from my own kiddos!

  9. Aimee Maughan
    January 27, 2012
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    This just may be one of my favorite blog sets from anyone ever! You can feel so much through them. Amazing work!

  10. Amber
    January 27, 2012
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    LOVE that last shot the mostest!! You are a beautiful and amazing mother and the love shown here in inspirational!! You’re just plain awesome.

  11. Michaela Wickman
    January 27, 2012
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    Laura, these are just wonderful! So creative. I would love to see your pull-back of this set-up! :)

  12. Rachel Aberle
    January 27, 2012
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    Sigh, just love this. Your children will always cherish these images.

  13. Kathleen
    January 27, 2012
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    I love it! So much love. You are such a great mom!

  14. Kelly Mack
    January 27, 2012
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    Ahhh i love this. You are such a lovely Mum. Happy birthday!!

  15. Danielle Frank
    January 27, 2012
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    Laura, these are AMAZING. Not only are you quite possibly the most fun mom ever, but you’re so creative too. I LOVE them all, but I love that you got one of all of you happily cuddling together. Priceless. Happy Birthday to your little guy!

  16. Jessica Deane
    January 27, 2012
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    IN. LOVE. WITH. ALL. OF. THEM.

  17. Nicole Ridella
    January 28, 2012
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    Laura – your photos always make me smile. And laugh. And feel happy. These are awesome and I love them! xoxo

  18. Nancy W
    January 28, 2012
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    So, so fun! I do the same w/ my little guy. He’s 14, bigger than me and still loves to wrestle. Sometimes mama ends up hurt but, I figure I don’t have much longer to wrestle with him so I grin & bear it (the owies, that is). :)

  19. Audrey
    January 30, 2012
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    Laura I love all of these. You’re so creative, these are fantastic! I may have to remember this trick when my little one gets too big for snuggles.

  20. Clarice
    January 30, 2012
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    Love these Laura! So playful!

  21. Carrie
    January 31, 2012
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    Words escape me right now Laura. I don’t know how to express how much I love these. LOVE!

  22. Dee
    February 02, 2012
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    I am in love with these images – totally.in.love. Gah – I feel all warm and fuzzy and mushy for having looked at them and now I want to go hug my own kids!

  23. Sylvia Borgo
    February 02, 2012
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    *weeeeeep* Why do your images make me crrrrryyyyyyy, Laura??? Didn’t I start bawling in your last post??? And I mean cry in a good way . . . these are amazing, these truly, truly are priceless.

  24. Lina
    February 03, 2012
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    Oh my, those are amazing – love them!

  25. Lauren
    April 11, 2012
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    I already knew you were an amazing photographer, but looking at these makes it obvious you are also a loving, wonderful mom too. These are awesome.


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